Check Your V.I.T.A.L.S.
Validate- validate your feelings, the "I don't want to...", there is a real reason for how you feel.
Imagine- imagine yourself doing it peacefully and productively.
Take Small Steps- break down the project into bite-size pieces.
Applaud Yourself- encourage your efforts, cheerlead, and coach (e.g., enjoy the feeling of making progress on the project.)
Lighten the Load- remember what you are getting out of by doing this (e.g., reducing guilt, shame, or anxiety; avoiding the negative consequences of a bad grade; avoiding the disappointment of a parent or teacher, etc.)
Sweeten the Pot- add something during or after that you like, reward your efforts (e.g., enjoy the feeling of accomplishment.)
Used with permission from the Triangle Area D.B.T.; Developed by Wilkerson, Moorhead, Safransky, 2002